Someone hurts you. You feel pain. Sadness. Anger. Sometimes we allow those feelings to overwhelm us to the point they come back out as more pain, directed at the person who hurt us or even at people who had nothing to do with the initial hurt. Often, you wear those painful feelings as a badge of honor or pride. "I've been hurt, so I have a reason to act this way!" You believe that by displaying your pain for the world to see the person who hurt you will suffer. The irony is, carrying unforgiveness ultimately hurts only one person: you.
Let's look at the anatomy of unforgiveness. When you allow yourself to wallow in unforgiveness, you are basically floating around in a sea of pain. You are surrounded by very slow moving, lower vibrating energies. Often your life is stagnant or on hold as you play in such energies. The sad part is, you are choosing to feel this way!!!
You may have been taught that forgiving someone means the bad thing the other person did to hurt you will somehow now be justified. The truth is, forgiveness in no way changes what the other person did. Forgiveness changes you!!! That's right, folks! Forgiving someone else changes you!!!
When you choose to forgive another person, you decide you have felt enough pain and are ready to experience something new. You allow yourself to get beyond the hurt and move on!!! Forgiveness is ultimately all about you and your journey of growth!!!
Don't let yourself to suffer needlessly. Carrying unforgiveness around is a very great burden to bear. Love yourself enough to let go of those tired, draining energies and allow yourself to step out and experience something better!!! Your life will once again be your own!!!
~CSE
Let's look at the anatomy of unforgiveness. When you allow yourself to wallow in unforgiveness, you are basically floating around in a sea of pain. You are surrounded by very slow moving, lower vibrating energies. Often your life is stagnant or on hold as you play in such energies. The sad part is, you are choosing to feel this way!!!
You may have been taught that forgiving someone means the bad thing the other person did to hurt you will somehow now be justified. The truth is, forgiveness in no way changes what the other person did. Forgiveness changes you!!! That's right, folks! Forgiving someone else changes you!!!
When you choose to forgive another person, you decide you have felt enough pain and are ready to experience something new. You allow yourself to get beyond the hurt and move on!!! Forgiveness is ultimately all about you and your journey of growth!!!
Don't let yourself to suffer needlessly. Carrying unforgiveness around is a very great burden to bear. Love yourself enough to let go of those tired, draining energies and allow yourself to step out and experience something better!!! Your life will once again be your own!!!
~CSE
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